Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Inspiration

I think finally today i found the right person who can actually give me the real picture on
how to persevere through this tough course.
Well all this while i always had the problem knowing clearly that i had to study hard but
sometimes my mind wanders and the determination is not strong enough.THus, i tend to procrastinate..
ok..
this would be what he say but not exactly in the same words but almost same meaning:

Wat motivates me will be my parents.They do not force or anything but they ask me to make
my own decisions.Maybe your parents dont care or ask you to take accountancy is because they dont wana pressure you too much. So i cant disappoint them.I am also from a poor family so
my parents cant afford to support my education. I had to figure the way out myself.

THen it will be motivation.What drives you or what you really want in your future.
For me,I want to be successful or how to say,to get better recognition or get promoted easily.
LAst time i just study diploma for three years then i work in industry.Then,I find out that it will be hard to get a promotion.Impossible the bos will send an engineer with only a diploma qualification to represent them in oversea such as Germany.Ppl might query "IS THIS THE BEST YOU CAN GET?so a degree or phd holder are more recognized.Therefore,I decided to
borrow money from bank which is a lot more than you can imagine to study degree overseas.I support my education for myself. AtUK,I work part time in a restaurant to support my living expenses.It is really not easy because the next day you went uni you tend to doze off.while studying there,I keep collapse and stood up and collapse and stood up.There is one year I gotta stop studying as i do not have enough money.Do you know how lucky you are so you must appreciate what you have now.Then i manage to get good result and obtain a scholarship to study my Phd.

Hmm,then i said most ppl discourage me to take ME as it is tough and so on...y dont just take accoutancy.(ppl said)

Well,If you really like the course you are studying then it is fine.Keep it on.Deep down inside your heart,you must know wat you really really really want to achieve.Accountancy will be very boring,everyday sit infront the desk balance and unbalance..
BUT engineering you had lots challenges.IF you dont like engineering
then dont waste your time taking this course.Y u take engineering at the first place?
challenging right.You want your life to be tired sometimes,relax,satisfaction,make you feel sad
hard but happy and enjoy...SO this engineering life will make the fluctuate curve in your life which is more meaningful and colourful.

As you said as women why would you want to work so hard ..(haha)
Just like my wife,she is a quantity surveyor. SOmetimes she will complain why do i need to
work so hard just like a cow or Sh*T.However,she feel happy and had strong sense of satisfaction when she is able to finish her project and present it to the clients.She is not very "nu qing ren"that type but she was happy with all the effort she put.SEE,it is challenging and tough but if you are able to do wat you like it is worthwhile doing it.
Do you know the world most famous C n C programmer is actually a women? women are good in calculation and they make good engineer bcos they are more "xi xin"..hehe..

When I look back laz time,I feel that everything is just like a joke..
Why i spend time thinking abt ("relationship"i think,,) then do badly in my spm. instead of spending my time study hard
gettin gud result,go for local U den get a good job..which i can earn more compare to now.
WHY AM I BEIN SUCH A DUMB?
or else i would not had waste so much years.Now i am still paying back the loans i borrowed for my degree program every month which is a big amount of money every month.

My principle,as a student we must always try our best to understand everything that our lecturer teach.You are lucky because you had a mechanical engineer who share experience with you.LAst time,i know nothing. Then as a student never ever be overconfident.we must always be humble. OF course exams,cgpa grades and assignments are important in terms of grading and puttin you in first or second upper or lower class honour. HOwever it is part of the process and it is nothing.Wat is more important is listen properly and pay attention to what your lecturer is teaching. It might be useful in the future while you are working in industry. So the course is not only abt scoring in exams but preparing yourself to be an engineer.Learn as much as possible. What is the point for a person who scores 100% in exams but during interviews, when they are asked to present sth,they are blanked??

DO not worry graduated as a mechanical engineer because there is a lot of jobs out there waiting fo you.As mechanical engineers are very versatile since they know everything about mechanics and...

SO now you must study,
first i would say yourself because you are the one who r going to work in the future.
you are the one who decide what you want. you are the one who are goin to live together
with your spouse to face challenge for the rest of your life.

Then it would be study for your parents.
Without them there wouldnt be me or you.
So you must do sth to make them proud.Now they might wont be bother but when you are succesful getting first class honour during the graduation with prizes and stuff..
they will be very happy and even show off to their relatives;)

ATTITUDE IS VERY IMPORTANT IN DETERMINING YOUR FUTURE.

wow,I think i wrote out almost 90% abt what he said..not bad huh..haha

1 comment:

Unknown said...

hey nice 1 pal!!!
keep up the hard work!!!