love yourself stop torturing yourself

i know that you face lots of problems where most teenagers will not face.
but can you stop torturing yourself??
can u stop eating out of control?
den drink a lot..
den make urself bloated..
den vomit>??

by torturing yourself,
you are just making yourself feel even worse,
you are making even more problems..

REMEMBER,
IF YOU WANA PUSH YOURSELF IN THE WELL AND MADE URSELF DROWN IN IT,
NO ONE CAN SAVE YOU!its your choice..

no matter how,you gotta try to solve the problem..
no matter what happen you still gotta carry on in life..
you are the one choose whether to lead a better life or made yourself even worse..
love yourself
dont forget your goals in life..
MADE YOURSELF PROUD-academics,family commitment,life enjoyment
MADE AUNT PROUD AND LESS WORRIES
for urself,
family,

time wait for no one..
i believe that as long as you make use of your time
many things can be solved..
your difficulties in understandin certain subject,
your commitment towards family,
made yourself a successful person..

i know that there are many things you cannot control in lifes,
just do wateva is possible..
YOU NEVER TRY IT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW!!

DO SOMETHING WHICH WOULD REALLY MADE HER PROUD!!!

Since you are young,

She cares about you.



She asked you to study hard
so that you could enter university and get a better job
so that you will never be like her.
She care about your safety..
Whenever you are sick she will rush you to the hospital.
No matter how childish you are,she pampered you
though she will beat you up for disobedience sometimes.
Whenever you are afraid and cried and showed terrible ethics,
as you did not want to go back grandma's house,
she would calm you down and bring you to the McD or KFC,,
She was really really patient towards you..



She is the one who spur your loves towards Mathematics indirectly.
Though she is not knowledgeable,she teach you lots of facts of lifes,
She is the one who work so hard in coffeshop so that she could sustain
the family.



When you are in secondary school,

She asked you to be a good student...
Then,due to your inhealthy lifestyle,
you caused your stomach to be bloated.
So,it become worse n worse from day to day..
She was so worried and from that day on,
she kept cook for you according to your needs.
always wait for you to eat the meal she cooked.
when you rejected,she felt disappointed.
SO YOU didnt go out with frens much as you did not want to spend too much money.
When she was SICK,you feel so bad,so sad,directionless.
you really cared about her.
she was very important in your life which you could not imagine..
Til now,she still blaming herself for causing your stomach to be bloated.
and always helped you to rub your stomach...though she was so tired working..
She is the one who drove you to skul or uni...whatever time you want..



Everytime she is worried,
how could you continue studies with such condition,
have you eat well,
where have you been til such late hours,
how to sustain your education fees,
how about your other sibllings,
your academic performance,
your attitude which is still so clumsy and lazy,
your parents who dont bother much about 3 of you,
when you run awy from hm,
she felt so sad n so so worried..

SHE ALWAYS THERE WHEN YOU NEED HELP..



She is more than your mother,
So you start relying on her,
didnt help much later on,
by taking studies as excuse,
scolded her for being not punctual,
felt guilty but didnt do much actions for her,
sometimes argue with her as she did not let you out.
YOU TAKE IT FOR GRANTED!!



Did you ever put yourself in her shoes,...

she had done so much for you showing her unconditional love towards you
what have you done for her??

did you help her out?
did you try to lessen some of her burden??
cooking,look after the shop..
did you helped her without giving excuses first?
did you think about her reaction,sadness when you gona do sth hurtin your stomach??


whenever you wanted to give up (bsides thinking abt urself)or thinking something abt relationship,

JUST THINK,WHO WAS THE MOST IMPORTANT IN YOUR LIFE,
WHAT YOU REALLY DO BEFORE IT WAS TOO LATE FOR YOU TO DO SO..

so you gotta sacrifice some of your fun time,
leisure which other teenager have abundance..

The sacrifices do worth it..
as you do it for someone your really really cherish and love and
feel grateful to..
Compare to her sacrifices of working 365 days,
what you sacfrifice is really a nothing..
you need not find a pushing force,
it is already there =)

DO SOMETHING WHICH WOULD REALLY MADE HER PROUD
AFTER SO LONG..

I prove to myself..I can do it..

finally.,i could prove to myself tat i can do it..wuhoo.,.
but still cant achieve the target as i take for granted on easier subject,..
moral of the story,.treat all subject equally important..
dun left out one of it for laz minute..
dangerous!!
so start drilling from first
do tutorials for few times.
do more til i reli udstd evtin..
Ganbatte
dont be too contented,,
long way to go for first clz honour..
it is gettin tougher..
nex sem muz gt even better pointer.
so I muz work even harder
ganbatte ne!!

qualities of a mechanical engineer

Personal Qualities
Mechanical engineers need to be:

self starter
adaptable
creative
practical
patient and persistent
accurate, with an eye for detail
able to work well under pressure
able to work well independently and in a team.

"You need perseverance in this job. Your design won't always work the first time, so you need to make sure you learn from your mistakes and move on."
Simon Kean - Acoustic Consultant

Mechanical engineers should have good hand-eye co-ordination.They may need to be physically fit because they often make site visits or work in factories. Sometimes site visits involve crawling into tight spaces or making inspections at heights.

just scribble

in life we might want a lot of tHIngs, but v well understand that v can ONlY ve one of manY so either v be crude and cHoose one or we end up wastin time indecisive and let the condition cHoose for us, smetimes when u ve time maYB u sHOuld ask urself wHich is more important, decide and implement,..wan yee quote..

i am really grateful.
even there are many things i dont have..
but at the same time thr are many things that i had.
my aunt who always support,remind,worry,help me out.
my frens who always be my listener,give me advices non stop whenever i feel bad,sad..
no matter same age or seniors..thanks a lot..
i am really lucky to have all of you who guide me all along.
but i am being too dependent and indecisive..
i m not young.
i must be sure what to do with my future.
be more responsible to myself.
try not asking others help so often/..
because when i collapse..it will be hard for me to stand up.
be more confident with myself i can do it!!

CHange Attitude

Hmm
All this while i had this problem..
the over winning desire..
when i collapse ..i feel like i lost my confidence to do other things
like almost give up,depressed.

But i must stand up..if i continue with this attitude ..
I will be static and wont go anywhere.
in working life,it will be harder to cope.
it's time for me to change.
I must realise that our life curve is fluctuating.
thats what make life more interesting.
learn from it.
(go exam in peace,dont be influenced,BELiEVE You CAN DO it!!)
we wont be in bad times always..
I m sure good times will come..
PROVE IT!!dont surrender to negative minds.
and that happen when I believe it and had confidence in it..
Solve the problems..
try my best so that I would not regret..

working hard and burning desire to get something is good.
but overwhelmed by it will backfire instead..
so just give ur best,try your best,and the result just let it be..

We as mechanical engineers do something for a purpose

Second consultation and the final ones.

As i know,my biggest problem will be thinking too much and worry too much.
Then,My biggest fear is do not know how to solve problem.

Here it is

Hmm worry
You are thinking too much because you worry
You worry is because you want to get all your things done.
it is because you reli care and want to get good marks for it.
you nervous and worry because you care
BUT if you put everything aside means you don bother at all.

SO don stress and worry too much.I would say it is a negative thing.
Just be calm OK..you can do better.
Do in a happy manner.Be optimistic.

Well to achieve your goals,A+b+c+x+y(composite)


Time management
Core to everything.You must learn to manage your time starting from now.
In working industry,if you dont manage your time well,you will really make a
mess out of everything.Setting time table,
maybe study break study break.
maybe study time ard 2 hour.but most probably you might extend it.
as long as your study time must be that much.(eg if set 2 hrs must be 2 hrs)
but for personal time can reduce it
Be prepared earlier,means read through one round few days before exam.


Priority

Base on the deadlines. ( which 1 "die" first)
base on which you are more confident in doing it.
while dividing times,this 20%,that 10% n another one 50% ..
make sure everything you balance it.
Study always come first.
if you insist on finishing something today eventually you can make it.


Set your Goals(DRIVING FORCE)
Your biggest aim?
scholarship.
study oversea (the weather-woo very cold,culture,people thr,..)
go for it!!
never borrow money to go oversea like me..

attitude
discipline
never give up easily
self confidence(you can do it)

STUDY SMART
we as mechanical engineers do sth for a purpose
-approach lecturer more often(build a rapport) by knowing how he teach and how he will examine you (hmm this lecturer is like this,like that,oh i think he will ask like this and wont ask that type of ques)
-dont memorise blindly
-listen and digest whatever lecturer said.when you fully digest it the knowledge is all yours. because no one can take the knowledge from you.
so dont listen blindly..you will gain nothing.
-study past year questions to know the style.get ans from lecturer
-get the feeling of a subject.
-dont understand browse the internet to get more visualisation.

BALANCE(TAI CHI)

whatever pressure,stress,motivation words and nervous..
you must use it with the correct energy..
just like doin tai chi.
tai chi is just like a bouncing a ball in your hands.
with proper motion,the ball bounds correctly BUt
if you use too much energy the ball will bounce somewhere else right?
hmm..
eg dont take peer pressure too seriously (wow someone race with you is good,
but if you too into it,then it will cause stress)
dont too nervous or too worry..
just moderate..


TRIALS AND ERRORS
dont be defeated by the tough questions.
dont afraid making mistakes while attempting questions.
you learn from it by seeing the questions from different views.
(hmm,this way i cant solve it,i use other way,that way cant i use the other way)
if too frustrated with it,
maybe you can just leave it awhile(put aside)
then come back to it later on.
maybe you can study other subject more relaxing?
autocad,programmin..or some fundamentals of other subject.
then when you come back and solve the ques,you feel more relieve.
(ah,finally i got it)
by doing this,you will remember and understand better.
So y=mx+c
while solving this question,
you will get higher marks on the working than final ans.
SO the Learning curve is more important.
sooner or later you gotta solve problem.
solve during exercise is better than during exams
during job interviews,they will ask you..can you handle pressureSS??
how?time management ..and ++++
i havent fail.i have found 10000 ways that dont work. -thomas alva edison.


BOOKWORM?
even you get first class.thr is no point.
it is because you dont know how to apply all your theories in working life,it is useless.
by that time you dont know how to solve problems.
you will feel I Was so IDIOT..
four years.. nothing but theories.


Following routes

• prepare before lecture.get the feeling of the subject.dont wait til lecturer teach


• Ask watever queries during lecture.impress lecturer as well


• then Maybe u can recall everything by thinking all over what you had learn.

my spm result not so good,If I can make it..Y cant all of you?

Pushing force+priority+time management+tai chi +ATTITUDE= goal